My wife and I decided to undergo a cruel Ketosis diet, which lasted about a month. I'm not sure if that changed something in her brain, but in February she suddenly divorced me for no apparent or logical reason. She just dropped the bomb on me with zero warning. No face to face talks. The bomb landed on me through Skype.
The only reason she ever told me was something in the effect of "My love for you has died and I just don't want you anymore. I saw you were exceedingly unhappy in this relationship and I see no reason continue together, not with these accomplishments".
When we met, she was knee-deep in debt, no steady job, living by her dad in a makeshift apartment made from a metal workshop office: no toilet, no running water. I lifted her from this miserable state to a practically debt-free life with a steady, moderately paying job and got her graduated to two different vocations.
She moved in with me. In few years time, we moved to her city of birth, got married, a joint mortgage, a house, two dogs and a new car. How's that for a list of accomplisments and devotion? For her, that weighed zilch pitted against divorce.
In just a few weeks time I was pushed around. I had to separate our joint bank account, give her control of the car, take possession of the dogs and start selling our house. During these weeks she became increasingly isolated: She single-handedly kicked out every person even loosely connected to me in Facebook, moved from the living room couch to the visitor room and locked access to her tablet and phone by a PIN code and was extremely protective at them. Every time her phone rang, she made a swift walk either outside or the visitor room and slammed the door shut so I wasn't able to hear any conversations. She also started visiting her "friends", while leaving behind those she knew by name. None of these other "friends" were ever mentioned by name.
In June she almost literally threw me and the dogs out because she was having a "business meeting" and according to her was "starting to build a business". No names were given. Just "friends" and "business". Little did I know I was about to witness Amway's descent and what's worse, adultery. The meeting was supposed to take four hours but it went well past it. Our security camera sent me a picture of my wife and a guy I saw arriving there first caught hugging with more than just lovebombing-kind way. It came to my knowledge that she had known this guy for several weeks. Where/How they met is unknown, but it wasn't hard to notice she was head over heels for him and this guy was her prospector, thus her upline. Then came boxes of stuff from Amway and she started attending functions. She was flat broke in just few days after payday. During her summer holiday she packed her car to the brim and moved living with him, leaving me behind. One weekend she coldly texted me that she's not going to pay any bills such as electricity, heating, etc. because "building my business big takes sacrifices and it's going to take at least a few months until I'm going to get something back". This caused my financial situation nearly collapse: All the bills had my name on them so I was forced to pay all of them in full or face penalties and consequences while she happily walked away from all financial responsibilities.
Today it has been a nearly a month since the divorce came legally to power. Because of her job, my ex-wife still loiters around here weekdays, living in a house she owns half of, using all the commodities she's not paying for and it doesn't bother her at all.
We were together for a decade and were married for four years. Now all those years are wasted.
Thanks a bunch, Amway.
I usually don't take the side of the ambot. But the writer had it coming. When he first hooked up with this woman. The way he described her she was a complete loser. You know the old saying "can't teach a dog new tricks". She's just now returning to her old habits. I once had a female friend who was exactly this way. She had a few marbles missing. Where she had problems with her financed,keeping a job,cheating and list goes on. She's not marriage or gf material and just move on
ReplyDeleteAnonymous - he must have seen something in her when they hooked up. He wonders if that diet changed her mentally. Maybe it changed her back?!
DeleteMy ex best friend was a female who was bipolar. Lack of sleep,negative comments,bad eating habits,and other factors. Can get her into this non working,slob,hyper sexual(sleeps with anything) and getting into trouble. If her life is routine without stresses,sleeping proper hours,eating healthy, no drugs,medication. She can be normal or it'll change her back into this mess of a person
ReplyDeleteAnonymous - people with disabilities are huge prey for Amway ambots. Could be the commenter's ex-wife was bipolar. Amway meetings can really wind up people like this who live off high highs and keep them hyper all the time. Until reality sets in that they've been scammed and crashes them into a low cycle.
DeleteThis month I had some dental cleaning,xrays,surgery for cracked and chipped tooth. It ran 1200.00 but I'm very frugal with my money. So even though I'm retired with no dental plan i can pay for it. But stories like this woman and others make me think ambots start losing teeth or go homeless. They have no priorities in life.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous - there are government programs for people who require dental assistance and shelters for the homeless and programs to help them get their lives on track. Whether people choose to accept this assistance is another matter. People in Amway wouldn't be able to afford that $1200 you spent on dental. They'd have to counsel with some asshole in their upline first who would prescribe Amway vitamins are another product to cure the tooth problem and that $1200 spent on a dentist would be money the greedy upline couldn't get their share of.
DeleteYes there are basic programs for people with no dental insurance or homeless. But in my case I also needed to see a dental specialist. The basic programs for homeless usually involves volunteer cleanings and fillings. The only thoughts where geesh I'm lucky to occasionally afford 250-400 a pop to get dental surgery by a specialist. If I'm buying Amway crap and tools. There would be no way I'd be affording dental
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