The Internet is full of stories
about marriages destroyed by involvement in Amway.
Most of the stories its the husband who’s the Amway keener and the wife who may
be supportive at first then wants nothing to do with it, especially after she’s
seeing how’s it changing her husband for the worse. Whether that’s because more
men than women are involved in Amway or whether its because more wives hit the
Internet to complain than husbands I don’t know. Sorry guys. This post is
taking the position that the husband is the Ambot.
Its been my personal experience and from other stories I’ve read that the
husband will usually leave Amway on his own inside one year due to one of
several things happening:
1. He finally comes to senses after not signing up any IBO’s or finding retail
customers and realizes that he’s wasting his time in this business. Amway’s bad
reputation for overpriced products and abusive IBO’s is a tough obstacle to
overcome. Most people he prospects have had bad experiences with Amway or know
someone who has and don’t want nothing to do with it. The word is out: RUN
don’t walk away from Amway!
2. He runs out of money or hits the limit on his credit cards. There’s no money
left to fund his upline’s dreams. Unfortunately if he ran up thousands of
dollars on his credit card the Amway nightmare might take years to pays off.
3. He stops going to Amway meetings or goes less often. That’s a good sign he’s
become fed up and disenchanted with this business opportunity. Often he stops
going because the speaker - usually the Platinum - insults him and mocks him
for not being “man enough” to build a business.
4. He finally reads the fine print on his Amway business plan and realizes less
than 1% of IBO’s actually make money and recognizes it for the shitty business
opportunity it is.
5. He starts looking around on the Internet and gets answers to questions that
his upline refuse to answer.
6. He stops buying shitty Amway products or less of them. Now this just might
mean he’s low on money and this could only be a temporary setback but hopefully
it means he saw similar products at Wal-Mart or Costco for a third to a quarter
of the price and realizes Amway products are not such a good deal after all.
Now those are just a few signs to look for that he’s losing interest or has
become disenchanted with the business, or had an argument with someone upline,
or got tired of being mocked in Amway cult meetings.
It doesn’t matter which one because he’s had enough and is on the way out. Wait
it out. Don’t even mention anything about Amway.
There might be small setbacks when someone upline phones and bullies him into
buying products or going to a meeting and his mind isn’t completely clear of
the brainwashing and he complies.
A good counterattack is to plan fun outings on nights when Amway meetings are
scheduled. If he chooses to go out and have fun with his wife instead of
putting on a business suit and meeting up with the other cult followers, that
means Amway is on the downslide.
Yes -- Amway is its own worst enemy. All the things you mention are sufficient in themselves to make somebody quit a business.
ReplyDeleteNo profit from retail sales and no success in recruitment of a down-line are plenty of reason enough to drop out of the Amway scam. But add to that the endless loss of money month after month, plus abuse from snotty up-line scum, and it's hard to see why any sane and self-respecting person would stay in it.
Thank God for blogs like this one, that tell the honest truth about what a rotten, stinking, lying corporation Amway is, along with all of its parasite subsystems like WWDB, BWW, Network 21, and all the rest.
By the way, Amway has so far refused to release last year's sales figures. Wanna bet they've taken another nosedive? The free flow of information on the internet is kicking the shit out of Amway.
Anonymous- something that real business owners know is losing money every month is not a sustainable way of doing business. At some point a business needs to be profitable. And if not, close it down.
DeleteYes blogs like this are important to warn others what it’s really like in Amway. Most eager new recruits won’t accept that Amway brings financial and emotional distress and believe they’ll be the long shot that goes really big in “the business”.
Amway usually releases its sales revenue for the previous year in February and I suspect you’re right they’ve taken another nose dive. Their spin doctors are probably trying to put themselves in the best light and bragging about increased revenue in Russia and Malaysia and ignoring the decline in America.
Another sign of someone planning to leave Amway is boredom, and impatience with hearing the same old bullshit week after week at those stupid meetings. How many times can you listen to some fat-assed Platinum jerk tell you about chalk circles and residual income and how to chat up strangers at a mall?
ReplyDeleteBesides this, much of what up-line tells you is in the nature of a pep-talk or a "rah-rah-let's-go-team" speech, meant solely to motivate you, but not to answer any serious questions you may have. Serious questions, in fact, are taboo -- if you persist in asking them you will be accused of "stinking thinking" or "being uncoachable."
Anonymous- boredom and impatience is how I felt at Amway meetings. It pissed me off we had to get dressed up and head to Amway cult meetings multiple times a week just to hear the same bullshit the cult leader spouted off last time. And the time before that. And the time before that too.
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