The Internet is full of stories
about marriages destroyed by involvement in Amway.
Most of the stories its the husband who’s the Amway keener and the wife who may
be supportive at first then wants nothing to do with it, especially after she’s
seeing how’s it changing her husband for the worse. Whether that’s because more
men than women are involved in Amway or whether its because more wives hit the
Internet to complain than husbands I don’t know. Sorry guys. This post is
taking the position that the husband is the Ambot.
Its been my personal experience and from other stories I’ve read that the
husband will usually leave Amway on his own inside one year due to one of
several things happening:
1. He finally comes to senses after not signing up any IBO’s or finding retail
customers and realizes that he’s wasting his time in this business. Amway’s bad
reputation for overpriced products and abusive IBO’s is a tough obstacle to
overcome. Most people he prospects have had bad experiences with Amway or know
someone who has and don’t want nothing to do with it. The word is out: RUN
don’t walk away from Amway!
2. He runs out of money or hits the limit on his credit cards. There’s no money
left to fund his upline’s dreams. Unfortunately if he ran up thousands of
dollars on his credit card the Amway nightmare might take years to pays off.
3. He stops going to Amway meetings or goes less often. That’s a good sign he’s
become fed up and disenchanted with this business opportunity. Often he stops
going because the speaker - usually the Platinum - insults him and mocks him
for not being “man enough” to build a business.
4. He finally reads the fine print on his Amway business plan and realizes less
than 1% of IBO’s actually make money and recognizes it for the shitty business
opportunity it is.
5. He starts looking around on the Internet and gets answers to questions that
his upline refuse to answer.
6. He stops buying shitty Amway products or less of them. Now this just might
mean he’s low on money and this could only be a temporary setback but hopefully
it means he saw similar products at Wal-Mart or Costco for a third to a quarter
of the price and realizes Amway products are not such a good deal after all.
Now those are just a few signs to look for that he’s losing interest or has
become disenchanted with the business, or had an argument with someone upline,
or got tired of being mocked in Amway cult meetings.
It doesn’t matter which one because he’s had enough and is on the way out. Wait
it out. Don’t even mention anything about Amway.
There might be small setbacks when someone upline phones and bullies him into
buying products or going to a meeting and his mind isn’t completely clear of
the brainwashing and he complies.
A good counterattack is to plan fun outings on nights when Amway meetings are
scheduled. If he chooses to go out and have fun with his wife instead of
putting on a business suit and meeting up with the other cult followers, that
means Amway is on the downslide.
Sensible husbands will usually drop out of Amway after a short stay, for the various reasons that you list. But some of them will dig in their heels and stay out of pride, stubbornness, or a refusal to face the fact that they were wrong. If the husband is the type who hates to admit that his wife is right sometimes, that also might be a reason.
ReplyDeleteThe big motivator for quitting Amway -- for anyone, male or female -- is the loss of money. Very few people can tolerate that for any length of time. It is too depressing and emotionally painful.
This is why a major task of your Amway up-line is to somehow convince you that losing money is OK, or that it is "an investment" rather than a loss. This is THE GREAT CENTRAL LIE OF AMWAY -- namely, that it is a sign of a successful businessman that he is losing money regularly.
It works with weak-minded persons for a little while. It works with really stupid persons for years and years.
That's correct Anonymous. The shorter the stay in Amway the more likely it is for the Ambot husband to drop out. The longer they're inside the Amway cult the more determined they might be to stay in because they've been thoroughly brainwashed to believe they will be rich very soon and laughing at everyone who didn't believe they could get rich in ScAmway.
DeleteLosing fistfuls of money instead of making money is not a sustainable lifestyle. Except the fucking assholes in the Amway upline brainwash the Ambots to believe that even if they don't make money in this pyramid scheme - they'll be come a nicer person. Like getting scammed out of thousands of dollars could make someone a nicer person instead of an angrier person LOL!
Yup only the very stupid stick around in Amway for longer than a couple of years.