Thanks to a reader for sharing his story. Different than many other
stories here because this time the Ambot is the wife. Moral of the story is
stay the hell away from Amway if you’re married and want to stay that way
because the Amway cult is all about destroying relationships.
Someone told me once that in order to participate in pyramid scemes such as this, you must either own a certain gene or have damaged your brain somehow to be influenced by these people.
My wife and I decided to undergo a cruel Ketosis diet, which lasted about a month. I'm not sure if that changed something in her brain, but in February she suddenly divorced me for no apparent or logical reason. She just dropped the bomb on me with zero warning. No face to face talks. The bomb landed on me through Skype.
The only reason she ever told me was something in the effect of "My love for you has died and I just don't want you anymore. I saw you were exceedingly unhappy in this relationship and I see no reason continue together, not with these accomplishments".
When we met, she was knee-deep in debt, no steady job, living by her dad in a makeshift apartment made from a metal workshop office: no toilet, no running water. I lifted her from this miserable state to a practically debt-free life with a steady, moderately paying job and got her graduated to two different vocations.
She moved in with me. In few years time, we moved to her city of birth, got married, a joint mortgage, a house, two dogs and a new car. How's that for a list of accomplisments and devotion? For her, that weighed zilch pitted against divorce.
In just a few weeks time I was pushed around. I had to separate our joint bank account, give her control of the car, take possession of the dogs and start selling our house. During these weeks she became increasingly isolated: She single-handedly kicked out every person even loosely connected to me in Facebook, moved from the living room couch to the visitor room and locked access to her tablet and phone by a PIN code and was extremely protective at them. Every time her phone rang, she made a swift walk either outside or the visitor room and slammed the door shut so I wasn't able to hear any conversations. She also started visiting her "friends", while leaving behind those she knew by name. None of these other "friends" were ever mentioned by name.
In June she almost literally threw me and the dogs out because she was having a "business meeting" and according to her was "starting to build a business". No names were given. Just "friends" and "business". Little did I know I was about to witness Amway's descent and what's worse, adultery. The meeting was supposed to take four hours but it went well past it. Our security camera sent me a picture of my wife and a guy I saw arriving there first caught hugging with more than just lovebombing-kind way. It came to my knowledge that she had known this guy for several weeks. Where/How they met is unknown, but it wasn't hard to notice she was head over heels for him and this guy was her prospector, thus her upline. Then came boxes of stuff from Amway and she started attending functions. She was flat broke in just few days after payday. During her summer holiday she packed her car to the brim and moved living with him, leaving me behind. One weekend she coldly texted me that she's not going to pay any bills such as electricity, heating, etc. because "building my business big takes sacrifices and it's going to take at least a few months until I'm going to get something back". This caused my financial situation nearly collapse: All the bills had my name on them so I was forced to pay all of them in full or face penalties and consequences while she happily walked away from all financial responsibilities.
Today it has been a nearly a month since the divorce came legally to power. Because of her job, my ex-wife still loiters around here weekdays, living in a house she owns half of, using all the commodities she's not paying for and it doesn't bother her at all.
We were together for a decade and were married for four years. Now all those years are wasted.
Thanks a bunch, Amway.
Someone told me once that in order to participate in pyramid scemes such as this, you must either own a certain gene or have damaged your brain somehow to be influenced by these people.
My wife and I decided to undergo a cruel Ketosis diet, which lasted about a month. I'm not sure if that changed something in her brain, but in February she suddenly divorced me for no apparent or logical reason. She just dropped the bomb on me with zero warning. No face to face talks. The bomb landed on me through Skype.
The only reason she ever told me was something in the effect of "My love for you has died and I just don't want you anymore. I saw you were exceedingly unhappy in this relationship and I see no reason continue together, not with these accomplishments".
When we met, she was knee-deep in debt, no steady job, living by her dad in a makeshift apartment made from a metal workshop office: no toilet, no running water. I lifted her from this miserable state to a practically debt-free life with a steady, moderately paying job and got her graduated to two different vocations.
She moved in with me. In few years time, we moved to her city of birth, got married, a joint mortgage, a house, two dogs and a new car. How's that for a list of accomplisments and devotion? For her, that weighed zilch pitted against divorce.
In just a few weeks time I was pushed around. I had to separate our joint bank account, give her control of the car, take possession of the dogs and start selling our house. During these weeks she became increasingly isolated: She single-handedly kicked out every person even loosely connected to me in Facebook, moved from the living room couch to the visitor room and locked access to her tablet and phone by a PIN code and was extremely protective at them. Every time her phone rang, she made a swift walk either outside or the visitor room and slammed the door shut so I wasn't able to hear any conversations. She also started visiting her "friends", while leaving behind those she knew by name. None of these other "friends" were ever mentioned by name.
In June she almost literally threw me and the dogs out because she was having a "business meeting" and according to her was "starting to build a business". No names were given. Just "friends" and "business". Little did I know I was about to witness Amway's descent and what's worse, adultery. The meeting was supposed to take four hours but it went well past it. Our security camera sent me a picture of my wife and a guy I saw arriving there first caught hugging with more than just lovebombing-kind way. It came to my knowledge that she had known this guy for several weeks. Where/How they met is unknown, but it wasn't hard to notice she was head over heels for him and this guy was her prospector, thus her upline. Then came boxes of stuff from Amway and she started attending functions. She was flat broke in just few days after payday. During her summer holiday she packed her car to the brim and moved living with him, leaving me behind. One weekend she coldly texted me that she's not going to pay any bills such as electricity, heating, etc. because "building my business big takes sacrifices and it's going to take at least a few months until I'm going to get something back". This caused my financial situation nearly collapse: All the bills had my name on them so I was forced to pay all of them in full or face penalties and consequences while she happily walked away from all financial responsibilities.
Today it has been a nearly a month since the divorce came legally to power. Because of her job, my ex-wife still loiters around here weekdays, living in a house she owns half of, using all the commodities she's not paying for and it doesn't bother her at all.
We were together for a decade and were married for four years. Now all those years are wasted.
Thanks a bunch, Amway.
Man, this is really sad. But as you are now financially endangered, being in your situation, I would try to sell the house and get rid of her as soon as possible. She needs to hit the ground hard to wake up, but by the time it happens you need not to have anything in common with her, I mean house etc. Amway asshole in da house is neverending liability and hence need be on her own not to continuously drain your resources. She owns half of the house? Then she should pay half of the bills and I think you can sue her to do that.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, horrible situation but you will do better with her being somebody elses liability.
Anonymous - it's a pretty sad story. When we went to Amway meetings the Amway cult leaders would claim that Amway saves marriages but there's more evidence out there that Amway destroys marriages. Sad for this guy. This is the reality of what Amway does to your life. Destroys it!
DeleteAmway is perfectly happy with divorces that split up a couple where one member is not enthusiastic about the scheme. Amway only wants a marriage where both parties are fanatically committed to Amway.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous - that's why I call WWDB World Wide Destructive Bastards. There's nothing that brings those evil Amway motherfuckers more happiness than destroying other people's relationships. Especially as you say if one person isn't a brainwashed Amway Ambot.
DeleteThe only consolation I can see in this horrible story is that, once this guy is finally free from this bitch, she will go crashing down into financial and emotional flames as Amway wrecks her life.
ReplyDeleteWell, I just busted my Ambot wife for masking her Amway purchases through a purchase card she funds through our joint bank account. I hammered her good in August when I saw 800 dollars went out the door in Amway purchasese alone, not even counting the Communicate shit. No problem for Ambot wife. She tried to get slick funding her card to hide the Amway purchases from me. Another 7 hundo went out the door in September. So, it looks like Amway is about to claim another marriage. Thanks from me as well Amway.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about that Anonymous. This is common behavior for an Ambot hiding how much money they're spending and signing up for new credit cards so their wife/husband doesn't realize they're digging deeper in debt thanks to the evil Amway pyramid scheme. Amway is all about losing your money, your marriage, your family, your friends and your sanity.
DeleteThe amounts you've mentioned are about average for an Ambot to spend on ScAmway. And it's usually all about running up credit cards to tithe the Great Amway God.
If you haven't already done so you need to see a lawyer and know your rights and what you're responsible for. If she's running a pretend business you don't want any part of the Amway debt or profits. LOL on the "profits". Good luck on all this.
Think amway just done you a massive favour. The trash has literally taken itself out. She used you, and thinks she can drop you to level up again. This is going to backfire spectacularly on her. But whatever you do, don't ever go back.
ReplyDeleteYup I think most of us can agree that people in Amway are trash and they'll use everyone around them to get what they want.
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