My story of what its like to be married to an Amway cult follower. I expose the lies that our upline told and what happens at Amway meetings and functions. I leave the explanations of why Amway is a poor business opportunity or the tool scam to other bloggers. This blog mainly exists to curse out my former upline, aka the cult leaders, and to let everyone know what kind of idiots I had to put up with. Feel free to join in or live vicariously!
Sunday, November 13, 2011
Ambot Kibbutzim
8 comments:
Comments are moderated but we publish just about everything. Even brainwashed ambots who show up here to accuse us of not trying hard enough and that we are lazy, quitters, negative, unchristian dreamstealers. Like we haven’t heard that Amspeak abuse from the assholes in our upline!
If your comment didn’t get published it could be one of these reasons:
1. Is it the weekend? We don’t moderate comments on weekends. Maybe not every day during the week either. Patience.
2. Racist/bigoted comments? Take that shit somewhere else.
3. Naming names? Public figures like politicians and actors and people known in Amway are probably OK – the owners, Diamonds with CDs or who speak at functions, people in Amway’s publicity department who write press releases and blogs. Its humiliating for people to admit their association with Amway so respect their privacy if they’re not out there telling everyone about the love of their life.
4. Gossip that serves no purpose. There are other places to dish about what Diamonds are having affairs or guessing why they’re getting divorced. If you absolutely must share that here – don’t name names. I get too many nosy ambots searching for this. Lets not help them find this shit.
5. Posting something creepy anonymously and we can’t track your location because you’re on a mobile device or using hide my ass or some other proxy. I attracted an obsessed fan and one of my blog administrators attracted a cyberstalker. Lets keep it safe for everyone. Anonymous is OK. Creepy anonymous and hiding – go fuck yourselves!
6. Posting something that serves no purpose other than to cause fighting.
7. Posting bullshit Amway propaganda. We might publish that comment to make fun of you. Otherwise take your agenda somewhere else. Not interested.
8. Notice how this blog is written in English? That's our language so keep your comments in English too. If you leave a comment written in another language then we either have to use Google translate to put it into English so everyone can understand what you wrote or we can hit the Delete button. Guess which one is easier for us to do?
9. We suspect you're a troublemaking Amway asshole.
10. Your comment got caught in the spam filter. Gets checked occasionally. We’ll get to you eventually and approve it as long as it really isn’t spam.
Anna - As you have already deduced, one of the greatest weaknesses of 'Amway' proselytizers, is how predictable they are. The term 'Ambot,' perfectly describes them. They are unthinking and unfeeling machines, completely dependent on a self-gratifying delusion to maintain their self-esteem and related psychological function. Once you know exactly what their delusion is, you can predict what Ambots will say and do, with a remarkable level of accuracy. However, I've also heard Ambots described in Britain as 'Jackpot Witnesses.'We all know what 'Jehovoa's Witnesses' will say and do when they appear on our doorsteps.
ReplyDeleteAlthough it's often difficult to imagine, no matter how loathsome Ambot machines might seem, at one time they were diverse individuals, and they will certainly not remain bonded by their Ambot group-delusion for much longer. Most former Ambots remain silent, the few who manage to break with 'Amway' and confront the ego-destroying reality that they have been systematically deceived and exploited, are invariably destitute and dissociated from all their previous social contacts. For many years afterwards, recovering former-Ambots can suffer from various psychological problems (which are also generally indicative of the victims of abuse).
'Amway Platinum Distributors' used to be known as 'Direct Distributors.'They correspond to Pastors and their deluded little flocks to parish congregations.
According to the sacred mathematical formula of the 'Amway business building plan', in order to acquire their ego-inflating title, contributing 'Platinum Distributorships' (which comprise married couples) have to create, and maintain, at least 50 more contributing 'distributorships' (usually comprising couples) for a 12 month period. However, around 60% of 'Amway' converts quickly stop contributing and never renew their first annual contract. Thus, in order to maintain their dream of future salvation, 'Platinums' will say, or do, anything to make a convert or to keep an existing convert from leaving. What they cannot see is that each reality-denying little 'Amway' congregation is just one part of world-wide reality-denying organization that has been in a constant state of collapse for more than half a century, but which has been steadfastly presented as constantly expanding.
David Brear (copyright 2011)
Oh oh David too many words I didn't understand!
ReplyDeleteYes at one time ambots probably were diverse individuals with lives and interests and hobbies and families and friends. They probably got involved in Amway under the false belief this is how they can make a better life for themselves and others. Under the cult leadership they turned into loathsome individuals.
My husband believed everything the cult leaders said. He believed it was his fault he didn't make money. He believed he would be a loser if he wasn't involved in Amway. He hated to lose the friendship of some of the ambots when he quit Amway. He suffered problems afterward. Me not so much other than being pissed off enough at the abuse we took from our former upline to blog about it. Making it real. Amway executives probably hate it when people blog about how Amway is a poor business opportunity, how the products are overpriced, how their food tastes like shit, etc. But someone who blogs about the emotions of dealing with typical ambots is another story. My upline could be anyone's upline. They're a bunch of assholes and we tell it like it is. It moves to a personal level and how we were victimized by the associations we had from being involved in Amway. I tell how the upline treated us. Our story is no different from lots of other stories I've read. This is what IBO's have to look forward to if they get involved in Amway, dealing with horrible people who force their religious and personal beliefs on you and tell you to ask permission to do anything and submit to upline. CULT!!!
I had to check the intellectual level of your post. Readability: grade 16. Way out of my league. That's why I didn't know some of those words!
The words that David uses may be on a grade 16 level, but at least the sentences are grammatically correct and intelligible. There are no spelling errors of everyday words and there is no profanity. That is a lot more than you'll get from an Ambot's comment!
ReplyDeleteDavid - the other David must be a learned scholar! On the other hand I don't got no learning so my sentences might not be correct, spelling no good, and lots of profanity! This is how I really talk!
ReplyDeleteYou make a lot more sense than an ambot. The reason I mentioned profanity is that use of profanity is against the code of conduct that all ambots are supposed to adhere to. When I was in, there was something I had to sign stating I would adhere to the code of conduct for IBOs or face discipline that could lead to the termination of my IBO ship.
ReplyDeleteI read some of the letters Scott Larsen received from former IBOs and current ambots. Most of the letters from the ambots were poorly written, leaving me to really have to think to figure out what they were trying to say. I read a letter from Dexter Yeager on that site. In that letter, he used the word asshole. I thought ambots were supposed to be above using profanity anyway, due to their anointing from God.
David - I might make more sense because I'm drawing on what I went through during the Amway Dark Days, how much money we spent, the shitty products, dragged off to meeting, upline abuse, and watched what was happening to my husband and I write about how it happened.
ReplyDeleteAmbots are brainwashed to believe everything their upline says and that everyone else is a negative dream stealer liar.
They arrive at my blog and are outraged that someone could curse out their upline the way I do and can barely spit out a coherent canned amspeak response.
You had to sign a code of conduct saying no profanity! Hell I could never sign something like that! Ambot used to try to tell me I had to put a dollar in the jar everytime I swore. Yeah good look trying to enforce that one! The jar would be overflowing by the end of the day!
And these are the supposed Christians who, even though "it's a business, but really it is a ministry" to reach out to the masses. Who, in their right frame of thinking, wants to follow such cult leaders? Following these people and their self induced gods like a-hole uttering, all-pious-Christian charlatan like Dexter Yaeger will lead to 2 hells - 1st one courtesy of scamway right here on earth, the other as per Christians' good book that they pretend to read. Watch out scambots.
ReplyDeleteBTW Thinking is too much work for ambots. Upline does that, their part is to do. Unbelievable as it may seem that is the truth. It is couched in one of the 3 cardinal rules "to submit to upline." Cult! I remember when this was being "eased" on me my upline used to give me examples of how he did not question upline. Same story was ditto for all the uplines I had access to. Did you notice another subtle but powerful scamway cult strategy? That all uplines had the same way of thinking, cult called same thought process. So you realized quickly oh ok everyone has a position and the top dog was the supreme thinker. To be "helped” by them to "build your business" you had to conform otherwise they would brush you aside and look for someone else who was ready for them to work with.
ExAmbot - my upline had a screwed up version of Christianity. Actually its our upline Platinum who is the scariest because I think he has a copy of Jim Jones's manual and it wouldn't surprise me at all to find him with his own breakaway little religious cult and looking for sanctuary in some 3rd world country where he won't attract a lot of attention.
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